The Art Of Taking Tea Mindfully

Suzi Browne | 13 Mar 2025
The Art Of Taking Tea Mindfully

In a world filled with chaos and stress, it is important we find ways in our daily lives that can help us find our own sense of calm. This is particularly relevant now as we face the challenges of working and living through a global pandemic.

Tea has been used for centuries around the world to instil peace and connection, not only with oneself but with community. Community can be used to describe family, friends, neighbours, and work colleagues. Tea allows us to transcend age, race, gender, or religion - it is a common denominator. The art of taking tea, although quite a simplistic ritual at face value, is an ancient and spiritual ritual that can have a very deep impact on our state of being, and physical and emotional health.     

Here you will discover how you can use loose-leaf tea to dial down stress and get back to your centre.  

Tea culture

As one of the most consumed beverages around the world beyond water, tea has rich traditions touching all corners of the globe. It is said to have originated in China nearly 6000 years ago and played a large part in key historical events. Today it forms part of many people’s daily lives across a multitude of cultures stemming from ancient tea rituals.   

It is not unusual when visiting Asian countries to be invited to participate in an ancient tea ritual, many of which are linked to Buddhist traditions. There is an art to the tea ceremony. Much care is taken in the preparation of a tea ceremony[1] and is just as important as the serving of the tea. Depending on the time of year, decorations are influenced by the seasons, but the ambience is always said to bring about peace and tranquillity. It is a highly practised skill which takes many years to master. Originally tea ceremonies were first practised by monks to ensure they stayed awake during long periods of meditation. Today, this formal and beautiful tradition is used to connect families and generations and is also very much an integral part of a business capacity/environment. It now even forms a popular complement to weddings, especially in China to connect the two adjoining families. 

Tea is unquestionably seeing a resurgence in popularity as a preferred beverage over coffee. High Tea has had a resurgence in popularity and is something of an institution at five-star hotels around the world. Interestingly during lockdown, the delivery of cream teas to homes in the UK[2] has surged. Is it any wonder, what is not to love about a selection of freshly baked scones and egg and cress sandwiches with a piping thermos of tea delivered to your door?

Benefits of tea

As humble as we might think the cup of tea is, it has such powerful qualities. It is a great healer – on many levels. How many occasions have you heard in times of distress, heartache, anxiety - even pain - that a friend, your mum or loved one has said “Sit yourself down and we’ll make a nice cup of tea”. Just the thought of it makes you breathe a big sigh of relief!

As a beverage, tea offers many benefits that affect the body and mind. Due to high levels of antioxidants and chemical compounds[3] of flavonoids and amino acids, research has shown that all forms of teas offer health-promoting qualities. Research has shown that drinking three cups of tea a week[4] is linked to a longer and healthier life. Few people realise that all teas, black, green, oolong and white tea are all derived from the same plant, Camelia sinensis[5], and all offer a range of different benefits to the body. 

The unique combination of L-theanine[6] and caffeine found in tea offers the desired effect of being alert and focussed but relaxed. Unlike coffee which offers an instant energy boost, tea offers a sustained caffeine release with a lasting warming effect. This can last up to several hours depending the type of tea how much is used and how it is brewed. 

There are also a multitude of hidden minerals and vitamins found in tea[7] including the A, C, and E vitamins that offer many health benefits. L-theanine in tea specifically has been found to be beneficial in minimising stress[8] and in reducing the risk of Alzheimer’s[9] and is great for the skin. Tea also has an anticarcinogenic effect against many different types of cancer[10].  

Rainbow of health

There have been many studies on the physical benefits of drinking tea[11] in promoting overall health and helping to decrease the risk of chronic and cognitive disease. You may have a go-to favourite or have a cupboard full of different teas for all moods and occasions. Enjoying a daily cuppa has never been more worthwhile.  

Research on black tea is said to combat inflammation and swelling and support healthy immunity.  It is also beneficial in terms of reducing risk of diabetes and high cholesterol while maintaining healthy blood sugar levels and improving blood pressure. It is also thought to reduce the risk of strokes by more than 30%[12]. As such, it can help to support a happy heart and a healthy gut. 

The benefits of green tea specifically help to improve brain function[13], oral health, and boost metabolism. Research has shown green tea’s high levels of antioxidants have been useful in reducing cancer risks. It can also help cut through fats[14], which is why often we reach for green tea when we feel we may have overindulged.  

Research about the benefits of oolong is not as prevalent, however, it is believed to offer great benefits to the skin given its anti-inflammatory and anti-ageing properties. It is also more effective than other teas in weight management and in reducing oxidising stress. Its anti-mutagenic qualities have also been linked to helping reduce cancer cell growth, particularly in some breast cancers.

White tea, the least processed of all tea means that it offers an even greater level of antioxidants of all teas. And besides many of the health benefits already discussed, white tea[15] is antibacterial and good for teeth and bones. It is also particularly effective in helping to reduce osteoporosis.  

Happy herbs

Herbal tea offers tea drinkers the same solace as a standard cup of tea, however without caffeine. By far when I ask people what their favourite herbal teas are, they prefer chamomile or peppermint.  Both offer their own individual health benefits however both are particularly soothing on the stomach. Chamomile is a particularly calming cuppa and great for cramps. It can help to quiet and relax the mind. Peppermint, on the other hand, is quite uplifting even in terms of its aroma. Aroma has a huge effect on cognition and mind, and inhaling tea[16] has been documented to help improve mood and reduce stress. 

Lavender[17] in particular has been shown to deeply impact our cognitive state and is used in aromatherapy to help diffuse anxiety and calm the nervous system. It is also great for insomnia and can also be consumed as a herbal tisane. Research carried out on new mothers[18] showed that those who took the time to inhale their tea deeply and appreciate the aroma before they drank it, assisted in reducing fatigue, depression, and sleep deprivation. 

There are many other herbs and spices which can be taken as tea and can be beneficial. I personally enjoy fennel tea at night which aids digestion. Ginger is a great warming cuppa for nausea, motion sickness or morning sickness. Due to its high vitamin C content, hibiscus tea is great for sore throats and its immunity-boosting powers. It also is said to assist with high blood pressure[19]. Even Oprah swears by it! If nothing else, you can enjoy its beautiful rose-coloured hue. Calendula tea is known to be a blood cleanser and exceptionally good for the skin. It can be used when cooled as a poultice on wounds. You can experiment with your preferred aromas and tastes, and equally combine ingredients to make your own individual blends.

Finding time for yourself and your cup of calm 

In today’s manic society, there is a prevailing constant need to be “always-on”, connected, and kept up to speed with everything happening around us.  Our lives have been made more intense with our personal and professional lives being permeated by Zoom fatigue. Yes, it is a thing. Especially now, it is vital that we all make time for ourselves. Taking a moment, even if just to sit quietly and have a cup of tea and “reset” can make a world of difference. To mitigate the effects of screen overload and other stressors, mindful meditation is a recommended practice and can be done anywhere, at any time.

It can help improve mood, give you the space to restock (by not needing to think) and calm what is described as the monkey mind[20]. I always find if I take a break and have a quiet cuppa, I feel recharged and have a clearer mind. I often come up with an idea or a solution that previously eluded me. To me this time is sacred. A small investment to recharge body and soul. We always seem to struggle to find the time to meditate, so using the few minutes it takes to make a cup of tea takes little effort but brings lasting rewards. This is in addition to the benefits you will enjoy from the cup of tea itself. It also provides an easy way to introduce mindfulness into your daily life. 

Five steps to creating a mindful tea ritual  

Follow these steps to help you create your own daily mindful tea ritual and enjoy a cup of calm.

1. Fill your kettle! Always use cold water to ensure you have given your chosen tea the most oxygenated water possible (it will taste better).

2. Choose your favourite cup or mug while your kettle comes to the boil. Drinking from a cup that you love will also add another dimension to your tea experience. If you have multiple cups to choose from, select one that suits your mood. Take note of its colour, texture, and the shape of the cup. Is it smooth? Is it chipped? Is it fine or heavy in your hands? What does the handle feel like in your hands? Does it have a pattern on it? Does it have a matching saucer? 

3. Select your tea of choice. Remember each type of tea requires different water temperatures and brewing times. This may take some experimentation, but you will know what you prefer best by its taste and aroma, and the type of tea. Here is a general guide:

  • Black tea 95 - 100 degrees, brewed for 3 – 5 minutes
  • Oolong tea 90 degrees, brewed for 2 – 5 minutes
  • Green tea 80 degrees, brewed for 2 – 3 minutes
  • White tea 70 – 75 degrees, brewed for 1 – 3 minutes
  • Herbal tea 100 degrees, brewed up to 5 minutes

If you do not have a temperature-controlled kettle, boil the water, and let cool for a few minutes.  Alternatively, you can add cold water once boiled to reach the desired temperature. Please note using the temperature and brewing guide will greatly enhance your tea experience.

4. Warm your teapot! Place the tea into the warmed teapot. Using an inbuilt strainer allows you to control the brewing times most effectively and brings out the best flavour profile from your tea. 

Choose a loose-leaf tea to suit your mood or taste, follow the brewing guidelines above. Use approximately one teaspoon per cup noting this can be adjusted to suit taste and will vary according to leaf size and type. Note you will need more leaves if the tea leaves are large or bulky, and slightly less if the tealeaves are fine. Take time to look at the dry leaves too, their colour, their shape, their consistency. Every tea leaf is unique.

5. Now it is time to enjoy your mindful brew. Take your time to remove the leaves from the teapot, using the inbuilt strainer if you have one. The wet leaves will also smell different to the dry. Note the colour of the liquor – is it a honey brown, golden rust, pale lemon, vibrant green or rich burgundy? Or maybe something entirely different? It should ring true to you. Now lean in to inhale the steam and aroma rising from the cup? What can you smell? Caramel notes, citrus, malt, or berries? Is it toasty, seaweedy, or spicy? Is it juicy, buttery or astringent? Where does this aroma take you? Can you think of a place? A memory? 

The humble cup of tea offers you so many benefits, not only for your body, but also your mind. Allow tea to take you on a sensory voyage. A voyage to a peaceful place where you can find solace, if only for a few moments.

NB: Please consult your general practitioner about tea and herbs that may interfere with medications, or if you are pregnant or breastfeeding.

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20. ByAlice G. Walton, PhD, Senior Contributor. Alice G. Walton, PhD is a writer who covers health and mental health. Follow Author Feb 28, 2017, 01:47pm EST Save Article This article is more than 7 years old. Earlier this month, a study reported that a brief instruction in either of two forms of meditation helped quiet negative thoughts in people who were told to think about a fear they had. The results aren’t too surprising since meditation was largely developed to do exactly this, but it’s always good to have more scientific evidence for the effect. Meditation is a tried-and-true method for quieting fear-based thoughts, but there are others that are equally effective, and which come from other disciplines, like psychology and neuroscience. Many of the strategies are actually pretty closely related to one another, but we can pick and choose from them as needed, when the "voices" in our heads are particularly meddlesome. So here are some science-based ways to quiet the chatter. Shutterstock Shutterstock Learn to Meditate The effects of mediation are so robust and so well-illustrated that they're worth mentioning right off the bat. The study mentioned earlier is especially important, since it found strong effects in both of the two main forms of meditation: Focused Attention (FA) and Open Monitoring (OM). (For a longer recap, see here.) In FA, one focuses on a thing—usually the breath—to train attention. And when your mind wanders, you bring it back to the breath, again and again. So the practice isn’t actually sitting there with a blank mind—it’s bringing the focus back to its object repeatedly. In the other, more advanced form, OM (also called mindfulness meditation), you watch your thoughts non-judgmentally, acknowledge them, and then (theoretically) let them go. Rather than reacting to a thought, you just observe it curiously and then watch it subside. In the new study, OM was more effective at helping reduce the number of negative thoughts people had, but FA helped a great deal, too. And beyond this, lots of earlier work earlier work has found the same thing in different ways: Studies have shown that mindfulness meditation can actually deactivate the brain regions that are thought to underlie mind chatter, the default mode network (DMN), which is active when our brains are just idling and flitting from thought to thought. Others have shown that it can actually change the structure of the brain in ways that support our ability to turn off the DMN. So meditation seems to offer a lot of benefit—not only psychologically, but neurologically—in reducing mind chatter. Cognitive behavior therapy (CBT) The research here is also pretty incontrovertible: Cognitive behavior therapy (CBT) has been shown again and again to help treat a range of mental health issues, not the least of which is the negative voices in our heads. In a nutshell, CBT teaches a person to recognize the negative thought processes they fall back on, and then consciously create a new thought—one that’s more based in reality—to replace it. So as with meditation, here, you’re also working to rewire the brain over time. “Cognitive behavioral therapy is the gold standard when it comes to reducing negative thoughts,” says clinical psychologist Deborah Serani, author of the book Living With Depression. “It works on two levels—the first is with your thoughts, helping you to identify them, how they're semantically worded, and how they impact your well-being, and finally how to reframe them. The second level looks to shift your behavior to match your newly minted thoughts.” She adds that CBT can ultimately change one’s way of being in a larger sense, after one learns how to adjust his or her go-to thought processes. “The psychological equation usually goes like this: if you think negatively, you behave negatively. So the thought is, ‘I'm never going to get that promotion.’ And the resulting behavior is that you don't work harder at work. But if you think positively, you’ll behave positively. So then it becomes a new relationship. Now the thought is, ‘I could get that promotion. I'm valuable.’ And the new behavior: You apply for the position and work towards that goal.” Forbes Daily: Join over 1 million Forbes Daily subscribers and get our best stories, exclusive reporting and essential analysis of the day’s news in your inbox every weekday. Email address Sign Up By signing up, you agree to our Terms of Service, and you acknowledge our Privacy Statement. Forbes is protected by reCAPTCHA, and the Google Privacy Policy and Terms of Service apply. CBT and meditation have a lot in common—in particular, the recognition of one’s own thought processes. So there’s a hybrid called mindfulness-based cognitive therapy (MBCT), which has also been shown to be extremely effective it treating depression and reducing relapse. Practice Mindfulness This can actually be separated from meditation proper, and might feel a little more accessible if you’re stuck in your head need a quick grounding in the present. Jon Kabat-Zinn’s famous description of mindfulness was to pay attention to the present moment on purpose, and non-judgmentally. What this means in a moment-to-moment way is that you pull your attention back into what you’re doing at the moment—your hands in the soapy water of the dishes, your breath, the way food feels in your mouth, the way your body feels in the chair, where you’re feeling stress or ease in your body and so on. Just taking a moment to pay attention to the present rather than what’s in your head—which is usually a far-off place—can do a lot to snap you out of your head. Color, count, recite, run As silly as it sounds, the adult coloring book craze has some merit, probably by focusing attention on a specific task. There’s not a lot of research on coloring, but a couple of studies have found connection between drawing and stress reduction. Other people may count as a way to focus their minds, or say a mantra. These are all subtle ways of focusing on a thing or activity other than our rambling thoughts. For those who like it, running can be a way to focus attention on the action, and the repetition of footsteps (of course, for those who hate running, other exercises are probably better). Distraction may work, but you have to be careful. “Distraction can be a simple way of diverting your thoughts to an activity, thought or emotion that takes away the negative thought,” says Serani. “For some, distraction, like listening to music, if your thoughts are negative, going for a run or talking about a memory that makes you happy can be an easy technique. For others, distraction feels temporary, and soon negative thinking takes root again.” Talk to an actual person. Barring that, write. There’s a fundamental difference between talking in your head and talking to a person: Talking in your head rarely arrives at any great revelations, since what’s floating around is often just a bunch of un-ordered thoughts and worries—but the act of verbalizing these thoughts and worries helps you generate a story, and generate meaning to that story. If you can’t talk to a person, write it out. That seems to have a similar effect to talking, probably because it also falls into the category of creating a narrative. One study on the effects of writing found that it helped with both physical and psychological issues, leading the authors to suggest that one mechanism behind the act of writing may be the “development of a coherent narrative over time.” Others have also suggested that it’s the cognitive processing that occurs when one is writing which confers the therapeutic value of the activity. Creating a narrative helps you wrap your head around what’s going on, which helps take away some of the painful circuitry of mind chatter. Practice acceptance “One of the more effective ways I treat the spiral of anxiety is using radical acceptance, or acceptance,” says licensed psychologist Shannon Kolakowski, “which is based in acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT).” She says that here, you try and accept the current reality as it is, however lousy, instead of trying to change it. “Rather than struggle and try to change what cannot be changed, you learn to accept it. It could be uncertainty, it could be fear, it could be any of life's difficulties that we cannot control. It's freeing from the cycle of worry because it teaches you to cope and deal with what's happening that's beyond your control, rather than try with futile efforts to change things.” Self-compassion is another part of ACT that can help tweak the internal monologue. “Having self-compassion is the act of treating yourself with kindness, and responding to your anxiety with gentle understanding and soothing," says Kolakowski. "Often, the first response to anxious thoughts is, ‘Oh no, here we go. I can't take this. I hate this. I hate when I have these thoughts.’ Self-compassion helps you change the internal dialogue to, ‘It's hard to feel this way, but you can get through this.’ It also encourages people not to blame themselves for feeling anxious, which makes anxiety worse, but instead to approach it from a place of understanding." Get outside yourself by helping others Another way to quiet the internal dialogue is to devote some time to an outside endeavor, particularly ones that benefit other people or the greater good. “Focus on something or someone outside of yourself,” says Kolakowski. “Monkey mind tends to be very self-absorbed, and if it's possible to focus your mind on others, particularly at first, but it's a great habit to develop.” “Defuse” the rhetoric A lot of our intrusive thoughts are pretty rhetorical and abstract. Serani points out that one way to help your negative thoughts lose power is to reframe or repeat what’s bothering you until it loses meaning. “Cognitive defusion,” says Serani, “is a technique that takes a word or a phrase and changes the function of how it impacts you. For example, studies show that if you take a phrase you say to yourself over and over again, like, ‘Life is meaningless,’ and reframe it as ‘I'm having a thought that life is meaningless.’ Repeating it as the second sentence takes the negative punch out of hearing it. Similarly, if you there's one word that you hear again and again in your head when you mess up (‘Stupid’), or feel inadequate (‘Loser’), saying it aloud over and over again aloud, dilutes it of its power. The vital piece here is to take the thought itself and verbalize so you can hear it. Cool, right?” You can also use what’s known as positive direction, or positive affect. “This is another linguistic trick to re-word your negative thoughts. Instead of thinking to yourself 'I can't do this,' or 'I'll never be able to make this goal happen,' twist the phrasing into positive words that you say aloud like, 'Of course I can be successful,' or 'I'm going to definitely make this happen,' to cheer you on. Such thinking stimulates goal directed behavior, priming the frontal lobes when you use such positive phrasing.” If all else fails… There are a lot of tricks that can help settle mind chatter, but none will be effective all the time. Sometimes you have to forcibly remind yourself that the mind is built to chatter and to make predictions—but that most of what it predicts doesn’t actually come true. Think of all the times the fears that your mind comes up with haven’t actually materialized. There might be some small solace in remembering that. And the good news is, as the science is showing more and more, that the brain can in fact rewire itself, with some practice, over time. The methods listed above are all ways to help it do this, so that in time the chattering will be less loud, and quiet down more quickly, with smaller and smaller reminders. Follow me on Twitter or LinkedIn. Check out my website. Editorial Standards Forbes Accolades LOADING VIDEO PLAYER... 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Suzi Browne is a freelance writer and marketer with a passion for natural health. She comes from a family of healers and has studied oriental health sciences and Wu Tao, a dance therapy based on Chinese medicine. Suzi is also one of Australia’s founding tea masters - find out more at www.teabythesea.com.au

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